Showing posts with label Bitterness. Show all posts
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Friday, January 25, 2013

Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee: "Which are you?"


Grandmother Says...Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee; "Which are you?"

A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as when one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed them on the stove. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, "Tell me what do you see?"

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft.

She then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. The granddaughter then asked. "What's the point, grandmother?"

Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity--boiling water--but each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. 

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her granddaughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level? 

~AUTHOR UNKNOWN
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Let's be like Job who said......"But He (God) knoweth the way that I take: when He hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold." (Job 23:10)

......and remember what Paul said......"For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through the thanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God. For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day. For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory; While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal. (2 Corinthians 4:15-18)




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Friday, June 8, 2012

Old Bricks

"If you carry old bricks from your past relationship to your new one, you will build the same house that fell apart before."  ~Unknown



How true this is. As Christians, when we allow things to build up in our lives (anger, resentment,
unforgiveness, bitterness, jealousy, etc.) it does not matter where we go, what we do, or who we marry we will be influenced by the same old thought patterns and will handle the problems of life the same old way...by running away or stuffing them inside. Until we lay them down at the Masters feet they are still a part of us like a cancer eating away at the fiber of our being and will continue to rob us of our joy, peace, purpose, well-being, hope, and happiness. 

It becomes harder and harder to lay them down the longer we carry them because this is how we have learned to function and we no longer remember any other way of handling life. It is a scary thing really because this way of dealing with life is all we have known for a long time. It has become who and what we are. 

BUT, if we are tired of being the way we are we MUST go to God and cry out to Him to remove these from our life and ask Him to show us a better way. But, we must also ask God to forgive us for not trusting Him to handle our burdens and repent of our previous way of handling things. Because of our lack of faith we have not pleased God (Heb. 11:6) and because we have not pleased God we have cut off our power to live the abundant life, stifled our growth and maturity, and lived below our means.

Once we've done this we MUST renew our minds daily (Rom. 12:2) by saturating our minds with the Word of God and drawing new strength from spending time with God in prayer and continuing to lay all things at His feet.

And finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. (Phil. 4:8)

The Lord set you free from the burden of sin the moment you first came to Him and repented of your sins and placed your faith and trust in Him for your salvation, yet satan sought to bind you again and you have allowed him. Ask God to help you throw off the shackles that the evil one has bound you with. These shackles have kept you from being the person that God desires for you to be and has kept you from receiving God's best. 

Here is the "old" list again: anger, resentment, unforgiveness, bitterness, jealousy. How do these make you feel? Name one of those that is worth holding onto. 

Here is the "new" list: joy, peace, purpose, well-being, hope, and happiness. 

Which list does satan want you to live out? Which list does God want you to live? Which list do you prefer? If I were a betting woman, I would bet you are in agreement with God. So, what are you waiting for? Don't put it off any longer. Start now! Release it all to God. Repent of those old ways and live the victorious life in Christ! Live a life that is holy, pleasing, and acceptable to God. For He is worthy! He deserves all of you and He deserves the best that you can give.

For His Honor and Glory,

~The Princess Warrior ♥


Note: Only the Christian has the power, through Christ, to live an abundant, victorious life and only the Christian has the hope of eternal life. If you do not have Christ and you are trying to make changes in your life such as trying to "turn over a new leaf" you are really just putting a band-aid over a gaping, blood gushing wound that is sucking the life out of your body. 

Unless the sin in your life is dealt with no amount of cleaning yourself up will erase the sin debt that has piled up to your account. Each time that you lie, or steal, or cheat, or take God's name in vain, or covet, or lust after another (which God has said in His Word is adultery, Matthew 5:28), or fornicate, or hate (which God has said is the same as murder, 1 John 3:15), or dishonor your parent, or create a God in your mind that is not the God of the Bible (a god who will not send people to hell), or place anything in this life above God, and even your thought life and your unbelief (Hebrews 11:6) is adding to your report and God will use that report to judge your life spent here on earth. 

You do not have the power to stop sinning, and even if you did, all your prior sins still keep you in debt. No amount of cleaning up your life will remove old sins from your ledger. God's wrath will still abide in you. You will still have to pay for those crimes against God. If one rape makes someone a rapist (then they are always a rapist), or one murder makes someone a murderer (then they are always a murderer), then one lie makes someone a liar, one theft (no matter how small) still makes you a thief. It is the same. It does not matter if you stop. The sin you have added to your account will remain.

God has said that the punishment for your sins will be death (Romans 6:23). You will be separated from Him for all eternity and your soul will be cast into the lake of fire and you will be tormented day and night...forever. God will not allow one minute speck of sin to enter into His heaven or it will cease to be heaven because one sin ALWAYS begets more sin, or in other words, one sin always leads to another. Sin must be eradicated. It cannot be allowed to continue to exist. It is like a disease and it infects everything it touches.

Then, what can you do to change your fate? I'm glad you asked. God had a plan to redeem mankind even before the foundation of the world was laid. Jesus Christ would come to this earth to bear our sin debt in His own body (1 Peter 2:24). He would die in our place. He would take our punishment. Every sin of mankind; past, present, and future was laid on Him. He was declared guilty and was punished in our stead. He who knew no sin became sin for us (2 Corinthians 5:21). Jesus Christ, our substitute, was God's greatest gift to mankind. 

Our sin separates us from God, for God is holy and righteous and He cannot fellowship with sinful people. Mankind has been separated from God ever since the first man, Adam, sinned in the garden. Every child born since that time has inherited Adam's sin nature. We are born as sinners (Romans 5:12, Psalm 51:5). BUT, God made a way for mankind to be reconciled unto Himself (2 Corinthians 5:18)...a way for us to once again be able to enter into His presence and that is why Jesus came. To make a way (John 14:6).

And Christ has made a way. God has done everything that is necessary to satisfy our debt through the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. We have been pardoned. God has presented His gift to every human being that has ever lived.

So, you may be thinking, "That's awesome! Then everyone must be going to heaven when they die!" Unfortunately, that is not true, for a gift must be accepted; a pardon must be acknowledged.

A gift must be received and it must be received with gladness and thankfulness...a feeling of not being deserving of such lavishness. We must realize the gift's value or we will be like the children on Christmas day who throw the gift aside and instead play with the box that it came in. How many parent's hearts sink when they took such care in choosing a gift and maybe worked overtime to purchase it to only have it cast away and replaced by something of little value or worth? And how many times have parents or friends been disappointed when they gave a child a gift of great cost then the child holds out their hands and says, "Is that all?" 

We must receive God's gift (His pardon and eternal life) with a grateful heart, knowing that the very Son of God had to give up His life so that we could live...so that we could once again walk with God unhindered by the weight and guilt of sin.

And how can we accept God's pardon if we do not know what we have been pardoned from? We must realize how great our sin debt is. This is the purpose of the law of God (His commands). When we look into the mirror of God's law we see ourselves as we really are. The law fulfills its purpose when it forces us to realize that we stand guilty before a holy and righteous God. It stops our mouths from proclaiming that we are a "good" person (Romans 3:19).

No human being can keep God's law completely. We cannot make ourselves sinless. Even if we keep the whole law and then sin only one time we are guilty of breaking all the laws (James 2:10). Let me explain - the law is like links in a chain. If just one link breaks then the whole chain is broken and becomes worthless and unusable. This brings us back to the statement I made earlier:  

"Unless the sin in your life is dealt with no amount of cleaning yourself up will erase the sin debt that has piled up to your account. Each time that you lie, or steal, or cheat, or take God's name in vain, or covet, or lust after another (which God has said in His Word is adultery, Matthew 5:28), or fornicate, or hate (which God has said is the same as murder, 1 John 3:15), or dishonor your parent, or create a God in your mind that is not the God of the Bible (a god who will not send people to hell), or place anything in this life above God, and even your thought life and your unbelief (Hebrews 11:6) is adding to your report and God will use that report to judge your life spent here on earth."  

And besides all that, dear friend, if I could give you only two commandments to show you that we all have sinned against God I would have to show you the words of Jesus. These commands condemns every man, woman, and child (that is able to understand). These are the laws which every other law hangs on, for if we can keep them, we can keep all. Even Christ's disciple wanted to know and asked Him this:

Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour (anyone that you come in contact with) as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets. (Matthew 22:36-40)

Beloved, by these verses we are condemned! NO ONE has always loved God with all their heart, soul and strength and NO ONE has always loved their neighbor as themselves. So, what must we do to be saved? Remember what I said earlier? God has offered us a gift. Jesus paid the price. Now, it is up to us to either accept or decline. To accept:  

1) We must first believe God (Acts 16:31) and we must believe that He came in the flesh as Jesus Christ (John 1:1, John 1:14, John 10:30) to pay our sin debt and confess Him as Lord (Romans 10:10).    

2) and we must receive His gift (John 1:12)  

3) and we must repent (turn from our sins and turn to God) so our sins will be wiped away (Acts 3:19) and here is the proof that we belong to Him...that we continue in His Word (John 8:31).

When we reject God and His free gift of eternal life through Jesus Christ we have declined and we remain guilty of every sin we have ever committed. Even while we are in the state of indecision we are lost and our sin remains in us.

My friend, time is running out. Hundreds of prophecies have been fulfilled already and the next event to occur on God's prophetic calendar is the return of Christ to gather together those who have accepted His sacrifice to fulfill His promise...His promise to take them to be with Him and live in the place He has prepared for them...forever. (John 14:3)

I took the time to write this because I care for your soul. I do not desire for you to spend an eternity in hell, especially since God, through Christ Jesus, sacrificed all so that you could be saved from God's wrath which is to come upon all the earth. (Revelation 16:1)

"The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance." (2 Peter 3:9) He says that now is the accepted time to come to Him. (2 Corinthians 6:2) After He comes to gather those who turned to Him for their salvation it will be too late for you. You have been warned! You are without excuse! Please, please, please DO NOT put this off!! Your eternal destiny is at stake! I pray right now that the Holy Spirit will draw you to God and to the knowledge of His saving grace. Amen.

To God be the glory!



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