Showing posts with label Pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pain. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Stand Still, The Lord Shall Fight for You

I was going back through some of my older posts and wanted to share with you a comment on a particular article I wrote and my response. There are no coincidences with God...there must be someone out there who needs to hear this today. 

But, here is the rest of the story...when the comment was originally made I could not reply to the person due to a weird Blogger problem with that particular post. I kept trying for a long time. Today, it let me. So, if you are reading this and you are the one who made the comment, please accept my sincerest apology. Since it was done anonymously I had no way of contacting you. I pray that God will bring you back for the reply, but most of all I pray that you have had victory!!

Anyway, the original post was entitled: Sometimes, God’s Warrior’s Cry 

It can be found at: http://theprincesswarriorministries.blogspot.com/2012/03/sometimes-gods-warriors-cry.html
 

Anonymous: Thank you, I needed this. I noticed the date that you posted this was March 14, 2012. That was the day my sword shattered and one more battle became more than I can handle. After 40 years of spiritual warfare, I was curled in a ball screaming and sobbing. The battle I had been in had taken such a toll on me that I barely could speak, let alone take a step. I'm an incredibly strong woman and I shattered in to a thousand pieces along with my sword.

The battle that nearly ended me, was one to protect members of my immediate family. I had no back up that time. I had no one to help me. The one who normally was my back up is the one who was the target of the attack, and had been for a while. Suffice it to say, I'm down for the count and out of the picture for now.

However this spoke to me. Thank you. Blessings!


The Princess Warrior: Dear Anonymous, I have been trying to reply to this message, but it wouldn't let me for some reason. I came back here today to try one more time. Friend, I can tell you I have been where you are and can say that I am still recovering...one day at a time. When the battles get too strong for us and causes us to fall it is because we did battle in our own strength. There is no way that we will grow weary if we are letting God fight for us. He is more than able to handle our problems. Yes...I am speaking from experience.

Some of us are born this way and have certain personality traits and others develop this way due to life circumstances...we become self-reliant...doing everything in our own strength. The more we do it the harder it is to let go and let God. It's a control issue. There is fear involved. Fear of relinquishing our lives and our circumstances to anyone else...it's self-preservation. This is a common characteristic of someone who has experienced deep hurt and/or rejection. We want to control everything so that we won't feel that pain ever again, but because we don't hand it over to God and let Him take the brunt of our situations we open ourselves up to even more hurt and pain. We are not capable of doing what God can do and we can't bear what God can bear.

Please do not look at this as the end of being a warrior for Christ...accept it as a period of rest and restoration...a time to look within yourself...to examine your heart as Paul admonishes, to see if you are in the faith...to ask God to reveal anything within that needs to be dealt with and ask for His help in letting go of the need for control and to trust Him with everything you were not meant to handle. If we can trust God to save our sinful soul from hell we must also trust Him to guide us and fight for us...every day!

God knows our frame. He did not create man to experience anxiety, depression, anger, loneliness, jealousy...you know, all the harmful emotions. Through the fall of man they have become a part of us, but we can't handle those emotions alone. We MUST let God do His part. He tells us that His burden is light. In Him we can have joy during tribulations, peace during turmoil and confidence during times of uncertainty, but it will only be through Him.

Hear what Moses said to the children of Israel: "And Moses said unto the people, Fear ye not, stand still, and see the salvation of the Lord, which he will shew to you to day: for the Egyptians whom ye have seen to day, ye shall see them again no more for ever. The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace." ~Exodus 14:13-14

STAND STILL my friend! Let the Lord fight for you!! God bless you! I'm praying for you! ~TPW ♔ 



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Sunday, September 23, 2012

Overcome Evil with Good

Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good. (Romans 12:21)
What a powerful, concise exhortation this is! In just a few words, Paul sums up the mission of Christian living.

First, be not overcome of evil! There are a thousand different ways in which Satan seeks to tear down our Christian testimony. It may be a temptation to sexual sin, or a tendency toward despair, or a disposition toward anger, or a longing for personal advancement or recognition.

But for all the temptations that may come our way, the remedy is the same, simple command: do not allow evil to overcome you. Stand fast in the Lord and in the power of his strength. Do not give in; do not be puffed up; do not allow your pride or lust or pain to overwhelm you.

And, second, overcome evil with good. The Christian's posture is not a defensive one. We are to be over-comers, not merely survivors. Not only are we not to give up in fighting sin, we are to counteract the sin in the world by our good lives and conduct. We are to overcome evil.

How can we do that? Not by fighting fire with fire, but rather by overcoming evil with good. There is no other way to successfully battle evil in the world. The goodness of our Savior must be reflected in the good words and works of his people. The more his goodness is displayed, the more sin loses its strength and subtlety.

Don't be overcome by sin; rather, overcome sin with the goodness of God.
 
~Unknown

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Charles H. Spurgeon on Depression

Spurgeon, Prince of Preachers
It's a good thing he wasn't born in the 20th century. Many believing brothers and sisters would label his tendency to melancholy sinful, or evidence of a lack of self-discipline, or even the result of shallow faith. A psychologist would probably send him away with a prescription and a self-help book with twelve easy steps to overcome depression. But Charles Haddon Spurgeon, perhaps the greatest preacher of the 19th century, had a different attitude toward his affliction.

Spurgeon knew "by most painful experience what deep depression of spirit means, being visited therewith at seasons by no means few or far between." He warned his students, "Fits of depression come over the most of us. Usually cheerful as we may be, we must at intervals be cast down. The strong are not always vigorous, the wise not always ready, the brave not always courageous, and the joyous not always happy." Although he said, "Spiritual darkness of any sort is to be avoided, and not desired," he never assumed that a Christian suffering depression must necessarily be in sin. Instead, he wrote, "I note that some whom I greatly love and esteem, who are, in my judgment, among the very choicest of God's people, nevertheless, travel most of the way to heaven by night."

Spurgeon goes on in his book, Lectures to my Students, to give some of the reasons believers fall into sadness. He also provides hope for those so overtaken.

"Is it not first, that they are men?" Spurgeon acknowledged that being a Christian did not make a man or woman immune from suffering. In fact, he said, "Even under the economy of redemption it is most clear that we are to endure infirmities, otherwise there were no need of the promised Spirit to help us in them. It is of need be that we are sometimes in heaviness. Good men are promised tribulation in this world." But he points out that through this suffering, we "may learn sympathy with the Lord's suffering people." Paul says something similar in 2 Corinthians 1:4; "God comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."

"Most of us are in some way or another unsound physically." Spurgeon suffered terribly with a joint disorder that was diagnosed as gout. He was forced to stay in bed, sometimes for weeks at a time in excruciating pain. "I have been brought very low," he wrote to his congregation during one long bout, "My flesh has been tortured with pain and my spirit has been prostrate with depression...With some difficulty I write these lines in my bed, mingling them with the groans of pain and the songs of hope."

With characteristic balance, Spurgeon understood that physical pain and natural temperament contribute to depression, but did not allow his students to use them as an excuse for despair. "These infirmities may be no detriment to a man's career of special usefulness," he said. "They may even have been imposed upon him by divine wisdom as necessary qualifications for his peculiar course of service. Some plants owe their medicinal qualities to the marsh in which they grow; others to the shades in which alone they flourish."

"In the midst of a long stretch of unbroken labor, the same affliction may be looked for." Spurgeon's schedule was exhausting. In a typical week, he preached ten times. He answered approximately 500 letters, taught in a ministerial college, administrated an orphanage and dealt with dozens of individuals concerning their souls. He wrote for publications, entertained visitors at his home, taught his own family and encouraged his bedridden wife. It is no wonder that his health suffered under such a workload. Spurgeon's church finally insisted on regular vacations for him each year. Spurgeon told his students, "The bow cannot be always bent without fear of breaking. Repose is as needful to the mind as sleep to the body. . . . Rest time is not waste time. It is economy to gather fresh strength."

"One crushing stroke has sometimes laid the minister very low." On October 19, 1856, the 22 year old Spurgeon spoke for the first time in the Surrey Gardens Music Hall in London. The church was no longer big enough to contain the crowds of people who wanted to hear him preach. Thousands packed into the music hall, seating themselves in aisles and stairways after all the regular seating was full, and hundreds more waited outside, hoping to hear part of the sermon through the windows. Just after Spurgeon began to pray, someone in a balcony shouted "Fire!" People pushed and shoved to get out of the building, and a stair railing gave way under the pressure. Seven people were killed and 28 more were injured. The tenderhearted Spurgeon never completely recovered from the emotional impact of this incident. He wrote, "I was pressed beyond measure and out of bounds with an enormous weight of misery. The tumult, the panic, the deaths, were day and night before me, and made life a burden."

Many have experienced a natural disaster, the death of a loved one, devastating financial loss or overwhelming disappointment when a child or a fellow believer has fallen into sin. Spurgeon offers hope from his own experience. "The fact that Jesus is still great, let His servants suffer as they may, piloted me back to calm reason and peace. Should so terrible a calamity overtake any of my brethren, let them both patiently hope and quietly wait for the salvation of God."

"The lesson from wisdom is, be not dismayed by soul-trouble." In the end, Spurgeon acknowledged that depression may come to some believers for no discernible reason. He did not consider it an illness, a sin, or surprising condition, but an inevitable season in the life of a Christian and an opportunity to demonstrate trust in the God who will one day wipe away every tear.

Any simpleton can follow the narrow path in the light: faith's rare wisdom enables us to march on in the dark with infallible accuracy, since she places her hand in that of her Great Guide. —Charles Spurgeon, Lectures to my Students

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I received a few comments on Facebook about this article so I thought I would share one of them along with my response:

Facebook Friend: I agreed with most of what was said, but not the part that depression is not an illness. Really all it said was that he never said it was an illness. I say that it can be as much of an illness as Cancer and other illnesses, but through the illness of depression and any other kind of suffering you can still be used by God.

The Princess Warrior: Hey Friend! =) I also believe that depression, in some instances, is an illness. In my mind, the main point of the article was in the very first paragraph: "Many believing brothers and sisters would label his tendency to melancholy sinful, or evidence of a lack of self-discipline, or even the result of shallow faith."

It is evident that Charles Spurgeon, who has been called the prince of preachers, did not lack self-discipline, nor a lack of faith, nor sinful. He knew from experiencing depression that it could be brought on by physical pain, a painful life experience, or even allowed by God so we "may learn sympathy with the Lord's suffering people" or "have an opportunity to demonstrate trust in the God who will one day wipe away every tear" and "it is most clear that we are to endure infirmities, otherwise there were no need of the promised Spirit to help us in them".

My thoughts on depression as an illness: I do believe some things we bring on ourselves and is a result of our own sin, but I also believe this -- God created man sinless and perfect, but when sin entered in people started experiencing stress, anger, anxiety, fear, loneliness, etc. These are the effects of sin for fallen man. I believe it became a part of our makeup and the more we felt these things the more they became a part of our DNA.

If my great-great-great-great grandmother was an intense worrier or was prone to getting depressed because of anger toward God or lack of faith, or selfishness or whatever, then her daughter did as well and then her daughter and so on and so on and so on, then somewhere along the line children started being born with these tendencies. My father had OCD and suffered with depression. I have the same, but I'm pretty sure mine was "triggered" when I was about 6, but my daughter was born with OCD and ADD. Right after she was born I went to the nursery window to see her. All the other babies were lying in their cribs like normal. She was the only one who was sideways. In her full body, one day old photo, her knees were red from trying to push around in the crib. I was like, "what the world!" Lol! At 2 months old she would break out in hives because I went to work. She has pulled her eyelashes out as long as I can remember.

So, long story short, I believe that mental illnesses can be genetic just like diabetes, heart disease, etc. That makes it even more important that we don't let these things define us and say well that's just the way I am. God can change whatever He sees fit to change in us or He will give us what we need to cope, but either way He will use us for His glory. So, that's my two cents worth. Lol!

Facebook Friend: I like your two cents worth! LOL! Thank you for all you said, I agree with it all. It's so refreshing to read what I just read. Thank you and God bless you! 


INTERESTING:

Biological Factors of OCD: The brain is a very complex structure. It contains billions of nerve cells -- called neurons -- that must communicate and work together for the body to function normally. The neurons communicate via electrical signals. Special chemicals, called neurotransmitters, help move these electrical messages from neuron to neuron. Research has found a link between low levels of one neurotransmitter -- called serotonin -- and the development of OCD. In addition, there is evidence that a serotonin imbalance may be passed on from parents to children. This means the tendency to develop OCD may be inherited. 

An excerpt from an article @ Web MD
http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/obsessive-compulsive-disorder?page=2

 


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Thursday, November 24, 2011

A Devotional for Those Who Suffer with Chronic Pain

Below is a daily devotional from Joni Eareckson Tada, a lady who has been a quadriplegic since the age of 17 when she broke her neck in a diving accident.  God has used Joni to become a worldwide blessing to all who suffer physical afflictions.  To sign up for Joni's wonderful devotionals, go to www.joniandfriends.org/daily-devotional/ - click on "Sign Up for Our Daily Devotional" on the right.  I am very thankful to the person who told me about this.

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Joni and Friends Daily Devotional 

Praise Him with Every Part
Praise the Lord, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name.  Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits--who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's. ~Psalm 103:1-5 

After years of quadriplegia, my bones are feeling tired.  But whenever I struggle with pain, I pray, "Bless the Lord, oh my soul, and all that is within me, bless His holy name."  I force all parts of me to bless the Lord, even my lower back when it's aching - it's one way of making certain God receives glory during physically agonizing times. 

Physical pain can cloud our convictions about God's benefits, which is why I must continually stir my soul to remember them.  God has pardoned all my sin, rescued, restored, crowned me with his love, and healed all my diseases.  Does this mean the pain goes away?  Not immediately, but I have the sure promise that just as Jesus rose from the grave with a new body, so I will one day rise with no more pain or heartache.  For now, as Paul says in Romans 8, we groan, waiting for the redemption God has promised.

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Nevertheless, our groans can glorify God!  Next time your muscles ache, your head throbs, or your feet cramp, force these body parts to join your soul in praising God:  "Praise the Lord, O my soul; and even my sore back blesses you.  Every part of me blesses your holy name!"  You will be stirring your soul to recall God's benefits.  You will be offering a "sacrifice of praise" (Hebrews 13:15). 

Lord Jesus, I want to praise you in body, soul and spirit.  I bless you from that part of me that "hurts" today - may it be a sacrifice of praise for every part of me delights in every part of you!

Blessings, 

Joni and Friends
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